Şunu aradınız:: uthandwayo (Xhosa - İngilizce)

ndithe ndisandula ukudlula kancinane kubo, ndamlumana lowo uthandwayo ngumphefumlo wam; ndambamba, andamyeka, ndada ndamzisa endlwini kama, engontsini yowandikhawulayo.
it was but a little that i passed from them, but i found him whom my soul loveth: i held him, and would not let him go, until i had brought him into my mother's house, and into the chamber of her that conceived me.

xa ithe indoda yanabafazi ababini, omnye ethandwa, omnye ethiyiwe, bayizalela oonyana, lowo uthandwayo nalowo uthiyiweyo; ke unyana wamazibulo waba ngowothiyiweyo:
if a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the firstborn son be hers that was hated: