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how about the poor who want to put an end in their not working relationship, can they go with the same process? this proposition will motivate couples to value their existing relationship.
vipi kuhusu maskini ambao wanataka kusitisha uhusiano wao usiofanya kazi, wanaweza kufuata utaratibu huo huo? pendekezo hili litawahamasisha wanandoa kuthamini uhusiano wao uliopo.

had they (the hypocrites) wanted to join your army, they would have prepared themselves, but god did not wish to motivate them, so he caused them to linger behind with those whose joining you in battle would be of no use.
na ingeli kuwa kweli walitaka kutoka bila ya shaka wangeli jiandalia maandalio, lakini mwenyezi mungu kachukia kutoka kwao, na kwa hivyo akawazuia na ikasemwa: kaeni pamoja na wanao kaa!