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arlene: ekuqaleni ubuhlobo bethu, sasivame ukuthola okuningi ngamehlo agcwele abone abantu ziyanyenyezelana, futhi kwakuvame ukuba ukungihlupha. lapho abantu babedlula la phambi ngigqolozele kwakungenza ngizizwe sengathi senzani okuthile okungalungile. it kwakudumaza, ngangazi ukuthi ngifuna ukuba kay, kodwa kwakunzima kangaka ukuhlala emihle.
arlene: in the beginning of our relationship, we used to get a lot of stares and see people whispering, and it used to bother me. when people would stare, it made me feel like we were doing something wrong. it was discouraging, i knew i wanted to be with kay, but it was so hard to stay positive.