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and when they hear vain talk, they avoid it and say, ‘our deeds belong to us, and your deeds belong to you.
na wanapo sikia upuuzi hujitenga nao na husema: sisi tuna vitendo vyetu, na nyinyi mna vitendo vyenu.

and when they hear vain talk, they avoid it, and say, “we have our deeds, and you have your deeds; peace be upon you; we do not desire the ignorant.”
na wanapo sikia upuuzi hujitenga nao na husema: sisi tuna vitendo vyetu, na nyinyi mna vitendo vyenu. salamun alaikum, amani juu yenu!

except those who are related to the people between whom and you is a treaty, or who come to you with their hearts no longer having the will to fight you or to fight their own people; had allah willed, he would certainly have given them power over you so that they would have surely fought you; then if they avoid you and do not wage war against you and make an offer of peace – then allah has not kept for you a way against them.
isipokuwa wale walio fungamana na watu ambao mna ahadi baina yenu na wao, au wanakujieni na vifua vyao vina dhiki kupigana nanyi, au kupigana na watu wao. na lau angeli penda mwenyezi mungu angeli wasaliti juu yenu wakapigana nanyi.