Je was op zoek naar: non haberi sed esse (Latijn - Engels)

non haberi sed esse
not to be held but to be

habere non haberi
where are you now?

non videri sed esse in silenti
but they do not seem to be on the d

docere autem mulieri non permitto neque dominari in virum sed esse in silenti
but i suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.